Monday, November 24, 2014

A Jewish Wedding- Mazel Tov!

The fifth and sixth graders learnt about our Matriarchs, Rochel and Leah. We discussed the amazing story of their marriage to Yaakov, as he was tricked by his father inlaw Lavan and therefore first married Leah instead of Rochel. The concept of a vail was introduced when learning about Yaakov's mother, Rivka, and then again brought up with this story. So, we were all interested to know...What other things happen at a Jewish wedding? This week in Hebrew school we all found this out with a Jewish Mock Wedding!

 We went through the many steps that are followed in a traditional Jewish wedding, beginning with the 'Badeken' when the Groom covers the Bride's face with a vail. This custom is derived from our Matriarch Rivka, who covered her face when she first saw Yitzchak, her future husband. 

The mothers of the Bride and groom customarily break a plate, to signify the concept that this plate should be the only thing broken and not G-d forbid anything in the marriage of these two individuals.


 The 'Chuppa' is where the main ceremony occurs. The Chuppa represents the Jewish home which the Bride and Groom are now creating. Before the Chuppa, the Bride and Groom untie their shoes, neckties, or bows  in order that At the moment when they "tie the ultimate knot," there should not be anything else binding them. At the Chuppa the Bride circles the Groom seven times, and then seven blessings are  recited over wine. This is a special time of blessing for the Bride and Groom to pray for their future together.
 The Groom places a ring on the Brides finger. The ring is pure gold with nothing inscribed on it. Two witnesses are present at this point. 
 "Baruch Ata Adonai Elohienu Melech Haolam, Borei Perei Hagafen!"
 At any time of Joy, we must remember that our joy is not be complete until the holy temple is rebuilt. So, the Groom breaks a glass cup to remind us of the Holy Temple which was destroyed. 
Let the celebrations begin! Lets dance and eat good food!
Mazel Tov!!

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